WHAT IS A “FAMILY”?

DEPENDS ON WHO YOU ASK!

By Jan Bergemann

Published May 18, 2012

  

In our day and time we see many legal fights over the definition “family.” Lots of lawsuits have been fought trying to determine what “family residence” really means. And believe me, after doing some research of Florida case law you will be even more confused. Many associations trying to enforce their definition of the word “family” found themselves on the pretty expensive -- losing --  end of the stick!

  

According to Wikipedia, the word “family” (from Latin: familia) is a group of people affiliated by consanguinity, affinity, or co-residence. Nice explanation, but not really helpful when it comes to determining who can really live in a “single-family home.” You can be sure that religious groups have a different definition of the word family than political groups – or just neighbors..

  

Association board members should be really careful trying to define the word “family” when attempting to regulate who can occupy a home/unit.

  

In a country where neighbors are permanently trying to tell their neighbors how to live their lives, it is financially dangerous to let emotions and religious beliefs be the decision-making factors.

  

Wherever you live, cities and counties have zoning ordinances that determine how the area you live in is zoned. Most of you live in areas that are zoned “single-family” or “multi-family” residential. But the actual definition differs from county to county, from city to city.

  

I found this explanation on the Internet – an explanation I think shows the actual problem of coming up with a specific definition: “Any zoning ordinance that attempts to restrict unrelated individuals from living together must be able to clearly explain why a certain number of unrelated people can't live together, define what the law means by the terms unrelated and living together, and what the penalties are.”

 

If you look up city and/or county ordinances and the explanations, you will see that they may totally differ.

   

St. Johns County responds to the question: “How many people can live in a single family residence?  by saying: “A single family residence can be occupied by no more than three (3) unrelated persons.”

  

The ordinance of the City of Daytona Beach , just a little south of St. Johns County , explains it much differently: “Use of a single-family dwelling or a duplex unit in any residential district shall be restricted to residential occupancy by one family. No more than two unrelated persons may live in a rental house.”

You can see: Definitions vary and there is no clear-cut solution.

  

Instead of using complicated methods for trying to limit the number of occupants of a home or unit, you might rather consider a method that, according to my research, has proven to be pretty reliable. How about: Two persons per bedroom? That may not necessarily be the solution you had in mind – or the solution you like -- but it may be the wise regulation, a regulation that can save your association lots of money.

 

And in case you feel that too many – or the wrong kind of – people occupy a home or a condo-unit, let code enforcement officers make the decision. They are better equipped – and better protected against lawsuits! Make your property taxes work for you!

  

KISS – meaning: Use the simple method. It may save you and your community lots of money and avoid lots of headaches.

  

Don’t forget: Many “regulations” are made by people with a “bias.”  And even the “best” regulations often don’t solve problems as intended. I can tell you, I would rather live next to a polite gay couple than next to a family – in the traditional meaning of the word – where the father is a drunk, screams obscenities and fires his gun to get the neighbors’ attention. I know a family living in a St. Augustine HOA that would definitely agree with me.

 

LIVE AND LET LIVE – FAMILY OR NOT!


 
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Jan Bergemann

Jan Bergemann is president of Cyber Citizens For Justice, Florida 's largest state-wide property owners' advocacy group. CCFJ works on legislation to help owners living in community

associations. He moved to Florida in 1995 - hoping to retire. He moved into a HOA, where the developer cheated the homeowners and used the association dues for his own purposes. End of retirement!

  

CCFJ was born in the year 2000, when some owners met in Tallahassee - finding out that power is only in numbers. Bergemann was a member of Governor Jeb Bush's HOA Task force in 2003/2004.

  

The organization has two websites to inform interested Florida homeowners and condo owners:

News Website: http://www.ccfj.net/.

Educational Website: http://www.ccfjfoundation.net/.

   
We think that only owners can really represent owners, since all service providers surely have a different interest! We are trying to create owner-friendly laws, but the best laws are useless without enforcement. And enforcement is totally lacking in Florida !

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